say a person does something bad, something wrong. i don’t believe that the person has the right to get  angry, or direct their anger to people who talk about the bad thing they’ve done. someone finds out, and they tell a friend, and the friend tells another friend - what do people expect? in a place like this especially, things get around. i don’t think that the individual who was in the wrong, has any grounds to be angry at the chain of people who talked about it, who told their friends, because - if you don’t want people to know about something that you’ve done wrong, you shouldn’t have done it in the first place! people just love a drama. i mean i love drama as much as the next girl, when it’s not about me or my friends - obviously - but, if you hear something about one of your friends, you are automatically going to want to tell them. i know my friends would rather i told them, than they hear from someone else. the point i’m making, however rambly it seems is that, you just shouldn’t do bad things. i can’t imagine what goes through peoples heads - don’t they know about karma? i’d like to think my karmic balance is alright. saying i wished people didn’t do bad things is like saying i wish we were all perfect. but there’s that free will thing, so yeah.

how soon is too soon? do you write it in text messages, over facebook, out loud? is it love after a month, 2 months? what is love? is this love? my guess is it’ll take a lifetime to figure out. i can’t wait.